We humans seem to delight in judging one another, usually unfavorably, usually compared to some unrealistic ideal or standard. At the same time, when we're judged, we're quick to remind those judging that no one is perfect, That we're "only human". I do believe that there are times when it's absolutely appropriate to judge another person, but we need to be realistic about the grounds on which we're judging. It is asinine to judge anyone based on factors over which they had no control. I feel safe in saying that no one in history has ever been able to determine before birth: Their nationality Their gender Their skin color Their appearance Their preferences Their degree of able-bodyness To judge anyone on factors that they were born with is bigoted, racist, sexist, and irrational. No one should be judged on how nature made them. It is fair and reasonable, however, to judge others on their character, what they've made of the themselves with the tools
The musings of an ordained Stoic